Super Sunday Daddy Day
"Would you like to come over for a Super Bowl party tomorrow?"
"Hold on a sec." I held the phone at my side, discussing Bubbie's invite quickly with Janette. HD t.v. football, snacks, and family fan time: sounded perfect to me.
Janette, I knew, would not be as enthusiastic, though. During this year's season, both kids had embraced the pigskin with me, but not Janette. Hannah loved the lights, music, and action. She sat next to me, cheering on our teams many Sundays. Gabriel discovered a fleeting interest in the team that bore his monogram on its helmet, particularly when they played against Pop Pop's Eagles. For Janette, football was just one of my little surprises she had discovered after our marriage.
"How about I take the kids over, and you get some down time?" I offered.
Needless to say, Janette wholeheartedly endorsed my proposal.
Enjoying the brief halo circling my head, I prepared for football day. Sunday morning, Hannah and I warmed up by playing, dancing, singing, and walking laps around the house. Gabriel joined us after Sunday school, building what he called a coyote cave with Janette. He and Hannah dug in for a kids' sized, pre-game tailgate party.
After a few minutes to myself and a shower, I gathered up the kids around two and headed to Bubbie's.
What can I say? We ate, we watched, we conquered. Hannah bounced her attention from Cousin J to Auntie OK (who earned a big, happy shout-out from Hannah usually reserved for her closest personal and professional friends). Gabriel played with his cousin or his Nintendo DS, occassionally looking up to admire the animated football player and Terminator robots duking it out around commerical breaks. Janette walked over and joined us for dinner. My brother, mother, and I: we enjoyed an excitingly close and well-fought game, all celebrating the narrow victory by the much-maligned New York Giants.
Tonight, Hannah sleeps deeply after a no-nap Sunday. Gabriel, too, has settled in his room. I've roamed the internet to read game narratives, several of which captured this nail-biter well. Now, I'm signing off and heading to bed myself.
To a great next season (yes, the Pro Bowl doesn't really count)....
-- Dad

Comments
Hannah and Gabriel, could you please tell your Mama and Papa that I AM NOT HAPPY (Lots of temper foot-stamping going on in France here). My Mama spent most of this weekend (NOTE : WEEKEND = my ONLY precious time with my Mama cos she works all hours all week long) reading their blogs ... and although she did laugh a lot, I still want to have more of her time just for ME ME ME ME simply because I am a spoiled princess. Hannah: my Mama has taken a real shine to you - she says you have the fiery spirit of a red-head (which in Mama's language means you are really pretty cool). And as for you Gabriel, it is your parent's ranting on and on about your parallel nintendo universe persistently throughout the blog which has her in stitches ... so suffice it to say, my Mama has adopted you all (she seldom does this and I'm very glad of that!!) and you may have noticed she has hyperlinked you lot to my blog ... should I be getting a tad jealous here?
Posted by: Abigail, 21 months, France | February 4, 2008 08:10 AM
Hey all. Thanks for all you do.
I'd love to have a digital copy of the booklet you prepared to describe how Hannah likes to be treated. could you please send that to me at the e-mail address listed above? Thanks,
Barb
Posted by: Barbara Wood | February 5, 2008 01:50 PM
Hannah, Gabriel, and their humble subjects thank you for your comments and link.
Sorry to take up some of your Mama's time (kind of how Hannah feels about Dad's work, I think - WHAT, no singing tonight!!!). We're loving your perspective & thoughts, Abigail, and appreciate your willingness to share your Mama, albiet briefly, with us!
Posted by: Rob at Kintropy | February 5, 2008 09:37 PM
Good morning:
Thanks for contributing this post to this week’s Carnival of Family life, hosted at Health Plans Plus!
Glad you had a great time. You forgot to mention, however, whether your wife enjoyed the down time??
Be sure to stop by the Carnival tomorrow and check out the other wonderful entries!
JHS
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Posted by: JHS | February 10, 2008 11:52 AM
Janette did appreciate the downtime (had enough to finish the book she was reading). She did comment, though, that it was weird to have a quiet house. Strange the things that unsettle us these days!
Thanks for including our entry in the Carnival.
Posted by: Rob at Kintropy | February 11, 2008 04:19 AM