Bedtime (Actually Asleep)
It's late, and the kids are in bed. Asleep, actually asleep!
Getting both kids to calm down, lay down, and sleep has been astoundingly hard for years. We've tried the books. We've built the rituals. We've counted - lots of by the time I count tos. But for the last two days, both have been going down to bed and sleep remarkably well. Here's what we've changed. I know two points only make a line, but I hoping this is maybe a trend.
We clarified expectations with Gabriel. In room by x, in bed by y, asleep by z time. With him, provided he lays his head down, he can turn off and go to sleep. Give him a book, a stuffed animal, any other distraction, and you'll be chatting with him until 11 or later!
With Hannah, Janette has been working with her on, let's say, more regular potty rituals w/ assistance on getting comfortable. With the gas gone or controlled, she's tons happier right now & ready to go to bed w/ less pain, turning, etc..
Again, not a trend yet, but hopefully good signs. Our bedtime rituals (read books, cuddle time, etc.) have become fodder for our two Stallmasters. At the moment, though, we have relative quiet and peace. I know I'm jinxing it by saying that, but maybe if I say it, clap my hands, and click my socked heels together, it'll keep working.
-- Dad
